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Gabriel Pantoja, Ph.D6 min read

Is My Child Learning to Read at School—or Do I Need to Help at Home?

Elementary school is where children formally learn to read. Classrooms have reading blocks, teachers are trained in literacy instruction, and curricula are aligned with state standards. So when a child struggles with reading—or doesn’t seem confident or interested—many parents quietly ask themselves:

Is school enough, or do I need to be doing more at home?

The research-based answer is balanced and encouraging:

Elementary school provides essential reading instruction, but it is rarely enough on its own for children to become confident, fluent readers.
Reading development works best when school instruction and home practice support each other.

Understanding why can help parents support reading without feeling overwhelmed or responsible for “teaching” school at home.

1. What Elementary Schools Do Well When Teaching Reading


Elementary schools are designed to teach children how reading works. Research shows that effective early-grade literacy instruction focuses on several core components¹²:

  • Phonemic awareness (hearing and manipulating sounds)
  • Phonics (connecting sounds to letters)
  • Vocabulary development
  • Reading comprehension strategies
  • Exposure to grade-level texts

In kindergarten through third grade especially, teachers follow structured approaches to introduce these skills systematically. This foundation is critical—without it, children struggle to decode words and make sense of text.

However, classroom instruction is primarily about introducing and practicing skills, not about building large amounts of reading experience. That distinction matters.

Schools teach how to read.
They cannot fully provide the volume of reading children need to become fluent.

2. The Biggest Constraint in Elementary Classrooms: Time and Individual Attention


One of the most important limitations of elementary reading instruction is time. In a typical classroom of 20–30 students, a teacher must divide attention among children with very different reading levels, learning styles, and needs.

Research suggests that each child receives only a few minutes per day of individualized reading practice or feedback³. Even in strong literacy programs, much of the reading day is spent on group instruction rather than sustained individual reading.

This means:

  • children may not read aloud often,
  • struggling readers may not get enough repetition,
  • confident readers may not get enough challenge.

Reading fluency and confidence are built through frequent, repeated encounters with text, which classrooms alone cannot always provide.

3. Why Reading Practice Outside School Is Essential


Reading is a skill that improves with exposure, repetition, and time—not instruction alone. Decades of research show that children who read more outside school:

  • build larger vocabularies,
  • recognize words more quickly,
  • comprehend texts more deeply,
  • perform better across academic subjects⁴⁵.

One influential line of research shows that small daily differences in reading time accumulate into huge gaps in word exposure over the years⁵. A child who reads even 10–15 minutes a day encounters hundreds of thousands more words annually than a child who does not.

These differences affect:

  • comprehension,
  • writing ability,
  • background knowledge,
  • long-term academic success.

School provides the instruction.
 Home provides the practice and volume that make instruction stick.

4. Home Reading Is About Experience, Not Re-Teaching School


Many parents hesitate to read at home because they worry they’ll “do it wrong.” Research strongly suggests parents do not need to replicate classroom instruction to help⁶.

Effective home reading support looks very different from school:

  • shared reading instead of drills,
  • conversation instead of correction,
  • enjoyment instead of assessment,
  • consistency instead of perfection.

Talking about stories—predicting what will happen, reacting to characters, connecting stories to real life—strengthens comprehension and vocabulary more than correcting every misread word⁴⁶.

Example:
Asking “Why do you think the character felt that way?” supports reading development far more than interrupting to fix pronunciation.

Home is where reading becomes meaningful and personal, which fuels motivation.

5. Why Some Children Still Struggle Even in Strong Schools


Even with quality instruction, children progress at different rates. Research shows reading development is influenced by multiple factors⁸⁹:

  • early language exposure,
  • vocabulary growth before school,
  • attention and self-regulation,
  • reading confidence,
  • access to books at home,
  • frequency of reading outside school.

Children who read less outside school encounter fewer words and ideas, which can slow comprehension growth⁴. Over time, this can make reading feel harder—and less enjoyable.

This doesn’t mean school is failing.
 It means reading is a practice-based skill, like learning an instrument or a sport.

6. What Research Recommends Parents Do at Home


Research consistently points to a small set of high-impact practices that support elementary readers:

  • Read together regularly
    • Even short daily reading sessions support fluency and vocabulary¹.
  • Let children choose books
    • Choice increases motivation, persistence, and enjoyment¹⁰.
  • Talk about what you read
    • Discussion builds comprehension and critical thinking⁴.
  • Keep reading low-pressure
    • Pressure reduces motivation; positive experiences increase it⁷.
  • Model reading
    • Children who see adults reading are more likely to read themselves¹¹.

These habits complement school instruction without duplicating it.

7. So… Is Elementary School Enough?


Elementary school provides the essential foundation for learning to read.
But reading confidence, fluency, and enjoyment are built through repeated experiences with books—both in and out of school.

References


  1. National Reading Panel. (2000). Teaching children to read. National Institute of Child Health and Human Development.

  2. Snow, C. E., Burns, M. S., & Griffin, P. (1998). Preventing reading difficulties in young children. National Academy Press.

  3. Pianta, R. C., et al. (2012). Classroom instruction and reading outcomes. Elementary School Journal, 112(3).

  4. Mol, S. E., & Bus, A. G. (2011). Print exposure and reading development. Psychological Bulletin, 137(2).

  5. Cunningham, A. E., & Stanovich, K. E. (1997). Early reading exposure effects. Journal of Educational Psychology, 89(1).

  6. Sénéchal, M., & LeFevre, J. (2020). Shared reading and literacy development. Child Development, 91(2).

  7. Guthrie, J. T., & Wigfield, A. (2023). Reading motivation and engagement. Reading Research Quarterly, 58(1).

  8. Hart, B., & Risley, T. (1995). Meaningful differences in the everyday experience of young American children.

  9. National Literacy Trust. (2023). Reading frequency and attainment.

  10. Schiefele, U., & Löweke, S. (2020). Choice and reading motivation. Journal of Educational Psychology, 112(4).

  11. Merga, M. (2019). Parents as reading role models. Journal of Adolescent & Adult Literacy, 62(5).*